10 Ways to Succeed with Learning Disabilities
-Adapted from an excerpt from Succeeding with LD: 20 True Stories About Real People with LD by Jill Lauren, M.A.
The people who shared their stories for the book, Succeeding with LD: 20 True Stories About Real People, worked hard to reach their goals. But hard work isn't the only thing that got them where they are today. Many of them used survival skills. These survival skills may help you or someone you know who faces the challenge of learning disabilities.
1. Find and use resources.
There are many resources available to people with LD: special schools, LD programs, resource rooms, special education classes, LD experts, tutors, and more. Find out which resources are available to you, then use them. Remember, using these resources doesn't mean you're "stupid"- it means you're smart enough to get the help you need.
2. Find strategies that work for you.
Do you need time extensions on projects and tests? Do you need to use a computer or a calculator to complete your work? Should you have a helper proof-read your work to spot errors? Whatever you need, don't feel ashamed about asking for it. You're not trying to get out of doing the work, you're just trying to do the best job possible.
3. Be honest about your LD.
Having LD doesn't have to be some big secret. There are people who can and will help you learn and give you the support you need- teachers, parents, relatives, coaches, tutors, mentors, counselors, friends, and so on. Let them know about your LD.
4. Don't use your LD as an excuse.
Just because you have LD doesn't mean you're doomed to fail or do poorly. You may, however, have to work harder to succeed. Saying, "I can't do my homework because I have LD," or "I can't possibly pass this class because of my LD, so what's the point in trying?" isn't fair to you or to your teachers. Remember, you may learn differently, but you can still learn.
5. Be aware of your rights.
Don't be afraid to speak up if you don't think you're getting the help you need or the education you deserve. You can talk to a parent, teacher, school counselor, school social worker, your principal, or any other adult you trust.
6. Find an interest, hobby, or activity you enjoy.
Instead of worrying or getting angry about your LD, spend time doing something you love to do. Whether its sports, building things, dance, art, or starting a business, the activity can take your mind off your troubles and will help you learn new skills.
7. Focus on your strengths.
Feeling sad or upset about what you aren't good at isn't the answer. Instead, work on what you are good at; then practice, practice, practice. Exploring your talents to the fullest will help you and others discover what's really special about you.
8. Keep trying.
Everyone hits obstacles sooner or later, so don't feel like you're the only one. You may fail a test after studying for days, you may find you're not getting the academic help you need, or you may run into someone who treats you badly because of your LD. No matter what happens, don't give up!
9. Learn more about LD.
Find out as much as you can about LD and your learning style. This will help you at home, in school, on the job, and in life. If you become an expert on your own LD, you can help other people to understand you better, and you'll help yourself.
10. Believe in yourself.
Positive self-esteem is one of the greatest motivators of all. If you feel confident, if you believe you can succeed, there's no stopping you!
For more information about learning disabilities visit www.ldonline.org.